Carefully weigh what you truly want to say BEFORE you open your big mouth, not afterwards. Because then it is obviously too late to do any good and repair a blown-apart bridge; by then it is obviously too late to undo the atomic fission which triggered the apocalyptic bomb; by then it is too to race down and reclaim the bullet you fired out of that gun in your hand. You unvaryingly have to exercise your brain BEFORE you exercise your mandibles. A failure to follow this glaringly simple rule should never earn you even one speck of sympathy. No, your only “solace” should be well-deserved contempt and a sleeping reservation on the cold hardwood floor in your guest bedroom.
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