- …..a lot of the time—MOST of the time, in fact—it simply boils to confidence. Do you harbor supreme confidence in the individual in question? Do you trust them implicitly? Do you trust them to do the right thing, not just part of the time but ALL of the time? Do you, ultimately…..trust them with your own life??? These are the seminal questions which demand answering before you rush forth gushing about how much you love and have faith in somebody—anybody! If you don’t possess this level of trust right now, then the blunt truth is you probably never will. And then those loud proclamations of confidence and love you keep boasting about ring hollower than a sixteen-gallon keg of cheap, foul-tasting beer following a Friday night college fraternity party…..
