- Do NOT offer advice if it is not requested. All advice offered without solicitation is BAD advice. Mind your own business unless someone invites you into THEIR business. Running one life–your OWN life–is complicated enough and a fulltime job, and few of us ever progress to the point where we are truly proficient at that “job”. Do not make this personal task unnecessarily more complicated by sticking your nose in where it is neither wanted nor needed. You don’t have time for it and other individuals don’t harbor a desire for such nonsense either, although myriad people are too polite to inform you of their true feelings and will thus tacitly default to your judgment merely to avoid awkward situations.
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