“When”, not “if”….. “When” is the most impactful word in the English language, while “if” is the most negative. “If” you don’t know whether you are going to succeed and you therefore leave wobble room for failure, that is almost certainly the outcome which awaits you. Confidence is fueled by expectations, never by doubts. Therefore, jettison the word “if” from your daily vocabulary, given the fact its connotation invariably foretells failure. Refer only to “when”…..when…..when…..WHEN…..because that word–and that word alone–settles you into the proper frame of mind for succeeding in life.
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